Don’t talk to yourself in such a way that if you did so to a friend, it would end your friendship.

If you had a friend dealing with the same things, you wouldn’t berate that person, say, ‘You’re not working hard enough,’ ‘You suck,’ or ‘You’re not as good as [whomever].’ You’d offer your friend encouragement, you’d try to point out all the things your friend did right, and how much progress your friend had made.

You should do no less for yourself. Be very careful how you talk to yourself. Because you are listening.
Pat Cadigan (via mrsfscottfitzgerald)

Anonymous asked:

are you telling me rosweglyn is more than two people. i've been trying to figure that out forever and then there it was

kaeandlucy answered:

ROS - Rose and Rosie

WEG - Whitney and Megan

LYN - Just Kaelyn. Because LUCY ISN’T IMPORTANT ENOUGH TO BE A PART OF THE NAME WAAAAAHHHHHH (but Lucy will be there, too)